But the ones we all want the answers too. Here at Central Pole Dance, nothing is off limits in terms of conversation topics. It's safe to say people have become comfortable with each other to the point that "taboo" subjects can be spoken about. But for the shy ones out there, we thoughts we would do a little post about those things you're maybe scared to ask.
I'm in between waxes/haven't shaved/don't want to shave. Our answer? We really don't care, and no one is looking. We all have body hair, and it really is up to the individual what they do with it. If you think your instructors are always like barbie dolls, you would be wrong. As long as a high level of hygiene is kept, we're cool with it.
I'm on my period and am self conscious about wearing shorts. Our answer? Almost all of our clients have periods, and understand that lil "leakage" fear. We would usually recommend using the same logic as you would in day to day life, big pants and dark colours! And don't worry, we will always very discreetly tell you if anything is showing. It's happened to the best of us, instructors included.
I have acne/scars/marks on my body and don't want it on show. Our answer? All bodies are normal here. We understand first hand how it can feel to have something we feel self conscious about, and literally can't change, on show for everyone to see. We want to help those who feel this way learn how to grow body confidence and appreciate their bodies, not fixate on the things they dislike. Yes, it can be a process but it's entirely possible.
I'm scared in case I show too much (eg - nip slip). Our answer? Another things that's happened to the best of us! Pole clothing can be smallllll so the odd nip, or lip slip is inevitable. It comes along with the territory of wearing teeny tiny outfits unfortunately. If this is something you are determined to avoid, make sure you choose clothing with more coverage, make sure it is well fitting, and do a good old "squat test" before wearing it to class.
I'm the least sexy person ever, but I secretly want to be. Our answer? Sexy is a state of mind that can in fact be learned, if you allow yourself to. Our dance classes encourage us to not only to learn the techniques of the movements, but to express ourselves and build up towards feeling sexy whilst performing them. It's not an overnight thing, and the room won't always be full of people who are completely comfortable being sexy yet. But one thing everyone has in common, is that they are there for themselves and to grow on their own journey, whether it is to work in feeling sexier or the other million things that pole dance can help with. Trust the process.
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